Your marketing is working. Your intake is where the money is leaking.

Most family law firms have never measured what happens between the phone ringing and the retainer being signed. I measure it, and then I fix it.

Family law intake consulting · Oklahoma & North Texas · Austin Tynes

What I found at my last firm

  • $513,000 signed retainers
  • 118 consultations led
  • ~$4,300 average matter

I spent seven months running intake for a multi-state family law firm covering Washington, Texas, and Colorado.

The number I actually think about is a different one. That firm tracked fifteen people who signed at least one client over ten months. Two of us accounted for roughly three quarters of everything collected.

Same leads. Same ads. Same fee schedule. The variable was who answered the phone — and nobody at the firm knew that until someone broke the revenue out by person.

That is not a lead generation problem. It is a conversion problem, and it stays invisible as long as you measure revenue in total instead of by the person who picked up.

Why intake fails in family law specifically

People call a family law firm on one of the worst days of their life. A spouse left. Someone took the kids. There is a protection order. They want answers, and you legally cannot give them legal advice. That gap is where most intake breaks.

The attorney time problem. This is the one that should bother you most. Every free consultation with someone who was never going to retain is the firm's most expensive hour spent on nothing, and most firms give several away a week without ever counting them. The fix is structural rather than motivational — the conversation about fit, fees, and whether someone can actually pay belongs before an attorney's calendar is involved, not after it. Protect that hour and everything else on this list gets cheaper to fix.

The script problem. A qualification script makes a person in crisis feel processed. The two highest producers at my last firm both quietly stopped using the company script, which tells you what the script was worth.

The warmth-without-a-close problem. The opposite failure. The caller feels heard, hangs up feeling better, and retains whoever asked for the business.

The payment problem. At a $3,000 to $6,000 retainer, a meaningful share of qualified callers want to hire you and cannot write the check today. When my last firm removed financing, closable volume dropped noticeably.

The coverage problem. Family law emergencies do not happen at 10am. My counterpart worked evenings and outproduced my morning shift.

Where to start

Five ways in. Which one is right depends on how much you already know about your intake, and how much of it you want me touching.

A stack of recorded calls. Send me fifteen of your intake calls and I will tell you what is happening on them — where they are being lost, what your people are actually saying, and what I would change first. Nothing to schedule, no access to your systems, no time from your people. The cheapest way to find out whether any of this applies to you.

A week, watching. I listen to your intake calls, work with whoever takes them, and follow what happens to a lead from the first ring to the retainer. Nobody has to host me for it, and the office does not change how it works while I am looking at it. At the end you get the number — your real conversion rate, where the losses cluster, who is losing them, and what I would change first. Some of what I find will be conversion. Some of it will be things your people are saying that you would not want said. Most firms should start here. It is the cheapest way to find out whether you have a problem worth paying anyone to fix.

Thirty days training your people. After the diagnosis, I work with whoever answers your phones. The framework rather than a script, a follow-up cadence for the callers who do not sign the first day, a way to log every call and reason for loss, and reviewed calls every week until it holds without me. If you need to hire before there is anyone to train, I build the selection process — the ad, the screening rubric, and a live role-play with a real scenario — and sit in on the finals. You make the hire. I tell you what I heard.

Thirty days of me running intake. I take your inbound consultation calls myself — understand the situation, build the value of your firm and your attorneys, stay clear of legal advice, and ask for the business without pressure. I qualify honestly, so attorney time goes to people who can and will retain. This is the right answer when the week shows the problem is not the process but that nobody there can do it yet.

Both at once. I run intake while training your people on it, so the number moves during the month rather than after it.

All of this runs remote unless you want it otherwise. If your firm operates on being in the room — walk-ins at the front desk, a team that trains better with someone there — I will come out and stay as long as the work takes. That is quoted separately, because it costs differently.

Pricing is set per engagement, against what the week finds. If the diagnosis says your intake is already good, that is the whole engagement and you have your answer.

What I need from you

  • Recorded calls if you have them. If you do not, that is usually the first thing to fix, and I will set it up.
  • CRM access, or permission to track in a shared sheet.
  • Your current fee schedule and payment or financing options.
  • Fifteen minutes with an attorney at the start, so I can speak accurately about how your firm works.
  • For the months where I am taking calls: inbound leads routed to me during agreed hours.

How the fee works

The week is a flat fee, due at the start. It is flat because there is nothing yet to measure it against — most firms cannot tell me what their conversion rate is, which is the reason the week exists. I am not going to put my fee at risk against a number neither of us has.

After the week that changes. You have a measured baseline in writing. Everything after it is priced against that number, and on the months where I am working your intake I am willing to put part of my fee on it.

What I will not do is take a cut of what your clients pay. Paying a non-attorney more money for each client who retains starts to look like compensation for delivering clients, and that runs into rules your bar takes seriously. That is the only reason. Getting more of those consultations to retain is exactly what you are hiring me for — how the caller arrives, what your attorney knows walking in, how the follow-up runs, and whether anyone is measuring which of those is costing you. I work on all of it, and I hand you the tracking. I am paid for the work, not out of the fees it produces.

Have your counsel review the structure before we sign anything. If they want it changed, I will change it.

What the week can find

Three answers, and I am fine with any of them.

Your intake is already good. You paid for a diagnosis and found out you do not have this problem. That is the whole engagement, and it is worth knowing.

There is a gap and it is the process. Nobody built a follow-up cadence, nobody is tracking losses, nobody covers the evenings. Your people can run it once somebody shows them how, and that is a month of training.

There is a gap and it is the person. The process is fine and the calls are still being lost. Somebody has to take them differently, and for a while that may need to be me — including the evenings and weekends where most firms lose the emergency calls.

Who I am

Nine years in commission sales, six of them leading a team of five to fifteen, where I hire, train, and review recorded calls every week. I am F&I certified, so structuring payment for someone who wants to say yes and cannot write the full check today is my actual discipline.

I wrote a fourteen module sales training and certification program built on a single test: a technique has to work by finding out something true, not by preventing the person from thinking. That is why my intake calls do not sound like sales calls, and it is why I can hand your team something repeatable instead of doing it myself and leaving.

I do not give legal advice. I do not use another firm's materials. I do not pressure people having the worst month of their life. Those are not positioning statements — they are the reason the conversion held.

Next step

Fifteen minutes, thirty, or an hour — whichever you have. I will ask how many leads you get in a month and what they cost you, how many of them become consultations and who runs those consultations, what your conversion rate on them is, and what happens to a call that comes in at 7pm on a Friday.

If you know those numbers, we have something to measure against. If you do not, that is the first thing worth knowing.

The calls are paid. If it is not a fit, I will tell you in the first five minutes and refund it.

Right now I am working with family law firms in Oklahoma and North Texas. The work runs remote by default, so a firm further out is not a problem.

Five questions, and nothing gets sent anywhere.